“You are being rude!”

I was told this the other day after a tense conversation with a rep who made allegations about my actions that weren’t true and kept interrupting me. I thought I was being logical, persistent and not letting her state things that were untrue. She thought I was...

Do you finesse — or just frustrate?

I witnessed a painful (to me) conversation between two male colleagues I admire. I’d been asked by Colleague A to attend a meeting between the 3 of us as we all serve on a committee together. I asked him the purpose of the meeting and he told me what he wanted...